Mahar as a Form of Self-Validation: A Humanistic Psychology Review

Abstract

This study aims to explore the psychological meaning of mahar in Islamic marriage through a humanistic psychology approach, particularly Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory and Carl Rogers' self theory. In modern society, mahar is no longer seen merely as a religious obligation but has shifted in meaning to become a symbol of status, self-esteem, and emotional validation. This research uses a literature review method with relevant primary and secondary sources, analyzed through data reduction, theme categorization, meaning interpretation, and drawing conclusions. The findings indicate that mahar can serve as a medium for self-validation that strengthens self-esteem and the emotional bond between partners when agreed upon consciously and authentically. However, distortions of the meaning of mahar, such as social pressure, family demands, and status symbols, can cause psychological burdens, relational imbalances, and damage the foundation of marriage. Humanistic psychology emphasizes the importance of authenticity, unconditional positive regard, and self-actualization in building healthy and meaningful relationships. Therefore, reinterpreting mahar as a form of respect and true love is crucial for establishing a marriage based on spiritual and humanitarian values.